Action Needed: Make Foster Care Home for the Holidays a Standard
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North Carolina’s foster care system is facing a critical shortage of foster homes with over 11,000 children in the system and only 6,000 available homes. The state experienced a 21% decrease in available foster homes between 2021 and 2023 while the number of children entering the system increased. The Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina (FFA), led by Executive Director Gaile Osborne, is working to recruit and retain foster families by providing resources, training, and advocacy, however, more support is needed to meet the demand for foster parents.
Families in North Carolina are cherishing warm meals and get-togethers during the holiday season. However, over 11,000 children within the state’s foster care system are often reminded of the absence of family ties.
Due to a mere 6,000 available foster homes, numerous children lack the necessary stability. This significant deficiency prompts a community call to action: each child deserves a home, especially during the holiday season.
My spouse and I became foster parents 15 years ago, initially to expand our family. We’ve fostered over 30 children and adopted five, even nurturing medically complex infants. Fostering goes beyond offering a home; it’s about transforming lives.
Many of these kids, often victims of unimaginable trauma, need stability and love to flourish. The holiday season, with its emphasis on unity, is a particularly touching time to contemplate the essence of family.
North Carolina’s foster care system faces enormous hurdles. From 2021 to 2023, the state witnessed a 21% drop in foster homes, while the number of children entering the system continually increased. This shortfall often results in children being placed far from their familiar surroundings, separated from siblings, or housed in non-family temporary facilities. These conditions exacerbate their pre-existing trauma, making healing even more challenging.
At the Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina (FFA), where I currently serve as Executive Director, we’re addressing these problems. Our mission involves recruiting and retaining foster families by providing resources, training, and advocacy. We assist families navigating the foster care system complexities, ensuring they’re prepared to provide the stability these children desperately need.
However, we require further support to fulfill the acute need for more foster parents. Fostering not only transforms children’s lives but also profoundly enriches those who open their homes. The bonds formed and the personal growth experienced are life-altering for all parties involved.
This holiday season, as we ponder gratitude and generosity, North Carolinians should think about fostering. The process might seem intimidating, but organizations like FFA are here to guide you. If fostering isn’t viable, you can still contribute. Support local foster families through donations, volunteer work, or advocacy efforts.
For many children, being “home for the holidays” remains a dream. Collectively, we can change that. Let’s act now to ensure every child in North Carolina has a home—not just for the holidays, but for a lifetime.
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